Have you ever said something like, “Remember, we’re a team.” What did you mean? Most so-called “teams” are not teams at all, and usually when we hear words like “teamwork” or “team spirit,” we have in mind certain behaviors and attitudes that are helpful, but that don’t define a team. Qualities like the ability to listen and empathize with others, mutual respect, openness, and dialog are all important, but they don’t make a team. All…